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It’s not easy – many of us have long-buried fears of abandonment of which we may not even be aware. We may have deluded ourselves that lower emotions such as jealousy could never possibly afflict us. Then the slightest admiring look from a stranger that your new partner attracts comes as a terrible threat. You may even want to go through his pockets while he sleeps, desperate to find some evidence of wrong-doing, to prove him unworthy or unkind. Alas, you stop being the person to whom he was attracted and it all becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If your fear was of abandonment, you are now doing the very things which will make it most likely to happen.
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