Giving your partner a gay erotic massage is one of the most romantic gestures you can offer; better than flowers, sexier than champagne, and guaranteed to leave your lover satisfied.
An erotic massage is more than just an oily rubdown: it’s an activity that builds trust, creates intimacy and goodwill, and the gentle and teasing touch is good for both physical and mental health.
The scientific side of a sensual massage sees blood pressure, heart rate, and respiration decrease if originally elevated. Your oxytocin and cortisol levels drop, leaving you stress-free and utterly relaxed, and your endorphins are raised; this combination is perfect for achieving a full-body orgasm.
Think you’re ready to explore the erotic elements of massage?
Switch off your phones, the television, and the computer. Dim the lights, draw the curtains, light those scented candles. You could run a steamy bath and get started once you and your partner have bathed together. Play some gentle music and make sure the temperature is just right. You want to set the scene because this is a prelude to the massage to come. Most importantly, make sure there are no distractions for the next few hours so you can give each other your undivided attention.
You need some good quality massage oils, some towels, and maybe even an intimate massager. Make sure the oils you use are scents you’ve both sampled previously and patch tested – you don’t want any headaches from strong scents or a rash in the wrong place, if you are not sure what you are doing, you can book your partner a session with one of Guysway professional male masseurs.
The first stage of a sensual massage is all about gentle touches, light teasing, and attuning yourself to their body. You could begin with long and gentle strokes down their back, slowly pouring drops of oil and massaging them in, then around their shoulders and down their arms, all the while, gently breathing and stroking in long and slow movements.
Massage the neck, leaning in and nibbling the earlobe whilst pressing yourself against them. You want to be teasing your partner, slowly and sensually working your way up and down their body, using the sense of touch as your guide. Listen, watch, feel their reactions. Feel what your body is doing to theirs.
Next, once things are starting to hot up, move right down to the feet, applying more oil but this time with firm strokes working from the tips of the toes to the bottoms of the heels. Massage away their aches and pains, moving up the body to the legs, past the knee and beyond.
By this time, you and your partner should be both feeling extremely sensual and aroused and ready for the next step. Gently add a few more drops of oil to the thighs, rubbing and massaging and stroking all the way up to the genitals, around to the buttocks and back again. You should be teasing and not go straight to their intimate area, but around it. At this point, you can either carry on and prolong the pleasure with more rubbing and oiling and kissing and nibbling, or you can move on from the massage foreplay ready to engage in the most erotic of lovemaking with a full body orgasm just waiting to happen.